The value of a person’s sense of self worth is what can make or break a relationship.
I’m going to be a bit vague because I’m not sure how much sense to make of the definition of “self worth.” I do know that it is important to a person to be able to compare their current worth to their past worth to make an accurate estimate of what they think their future worth is. I’d say that most people have a very high self worth, but are still surprised when they’re reminded of how little they actually know.
A lot of the people that know me really don’t seem to know me much at all, if they know me at all. As for people that don’t know me, they think they know me. I think this is a common human trait, and it’s really disheartening because you can so easily become so attached to your own self image that you think you know what you are, what you have, and what you can become that you don’t realize how much you don’t know.
It’s hard to get past those feelings of “I don’t know what I’m talking about,” “I don’t even know what I’m doing here anymore,” and “I’m an idiot.” What we really need to do is think about how we really are and what we are capable of doing, not what we think we are, what we think we can become, and what we think we know how to do.
It is so easy to get so caught up in our own image that we don’t realize how much we don’t know what we are, and we don’t realize that we are capable of so much.
Sure, it is easy to get caught up in our own image, but it is hard to keep ourselves on task. It is also hard to keep ourselves from going completely over the edge.
It’s not so much that we can’t do it. We can. We just can’t always do as well as we think we can. Think of a time you had a big job or a big vacation. You were on cloud nine, and you can’t wait to get back to your desk. You want to get back to your family and friends and all the things you love.
I’m sure you have this story in your head, or at least a version of it. I’ve had this thought too. It’s like, imagine if every time you had a big meeting with your boss or your manager you had to call in sick, and instead you went to your doctor and you had a big chat about how your life is going to be better and then you went home and you took your medicine. You really had a big meeting.
If you’re trying to get back to your family, the first thing you need to do is to write down what you’ve done and how you’ll feel. This is an amazing resource. We get that from our favorite authors. But you don’t need to write it down before you talk. It’s even possible to do it in your car at a restaurant or wherever, and it’s also possible to be as happy as you want to be on the road.
But you have to get your mind set on what’s going on because youre not prepared for that. Your mind can change, or not, depending on how you feel. This is the reason we have the power over the web to determine how your life will look. So if youre trying to get back to your family, you have to take a deep breath and change your mind.
